Today I want to speak up, stand up and call out mothers of the world whom wont allow their boys to boys raising them as girls (and no god doesn’t choose you to be such thing) or having him growing up to be a man physical but, mentally he is still a boy!!! THANKS MOTHERS OF THE WORLD!!! Me not being a parent yet can not speak on the thought process and the views of that mother raising her boy but, being in the girlfriend role dating your immature, broken boys I can say you just released a monster in the world. I’m so tired of these men approaching us like one, wooing us like one but some how we end up dating and making future plans with the child; being his mother by day and girlfriend by night( i mean who is really trying to have sex with their mother) right!!you end up lowering your values and things you say you would never take from no man but somehow his charm allows you to stay and get the game all messed up by thinking you can fix him, do something his mother could not do unfortunately which is finish raising him. insight we as women are the ones hurting ourselves trying to change a man whom is not looking for change (rule number 1) treating him as our child by allowing him to verbally, mentally and physically abuse us like a child whom can not get their way and like a mother we step in that role and make excuses and reasoning to why he behaves the way he does, but its simple he does what he does CAUSE WE ALLOW HIM TO!! THATS IT. I challenge us women no matter what the age, race, situation or anything else that you may think of. I CHALLENGE YOU TO PUT YOU FIRST!!! No more settling, No more lowering the bar to make him feel good, No more excuses, NO MORE!!
In the words of K.Michelle “you cant raise a man”